Wednesday, October 23, 2013
You can't stop a winning attitude !
Change is hard. It's uncomfortable, lonely at times and will make you question every fiber in your body. But, is it worth it? You know it is...and sometimes you just need a little push in the right direction.
For those following along, my local client has been on a 12 week lifestyle challenge to end the roller coaster. I couldn't be more proud of my her! These last 6 weeks have been not only been challenging, but have pushed her to a point she didn't realize was possible.
We never used that dreaded four letter word 'DIET'. We focused on changing components of her lifestyle to enhance her overall well being.
In 6 weeks, Kim has lost 10 lbs and FOUR inches in her waist. Remember- overall inches lost means she is retaining lean muscle but losing FAT. As you may recall from an earlier blog, this is not Kim's first crack at this....four years ago she lost the weight....lost the momentum...but got her mojo back - this time for good!
I asked Kim to share her feelings over the last 6 weeks and give her perspective for the rest of the challenge. I ask my clients to do this for several reasons:
1) Prove to themselves how far they have come whether they believe it or not !
2) Reflective writing is very useful. When you have a bad day, you can reflect on your accomplishments and achievements, not the disappointments.
3) Share with others useful hints/tips for making a transition of lifestyle.
Here I am...6 weeks into my Lifestyle Change. Four years ago, I was in this exact place but now it's different. There is no way to compare the process at 44 yrs of age to the training regimen when I was 40. There were different stresses, different goals and different environments. I’m not going to get caught up in the past - I’m going to focus on the process over the last six weeks.
In the beginning it was difficult to give up the coping
mechanisms that had become part of my daily life. The first was wine. Not only was it a way to reduce stress, it
was also my socializing tool. I found
that it took four weeks to really reduce the feeling that I “needed” a glass of
wine after a long day. There were
definitely supportive friends and then there were friends that I believe felt uncomfortable
being around me and my new lifestyle choices. Kathy warned me this might happen and she was right.
Next, I had to tackle my nutrition plan. I learned early on that organization and prepping is the key to maintaining proper
nutrition. I cannot leave my nutrition up to chance.
Kathy provided a meal plan based on my workouts, daily activities, sleep pattern, etc. It was up to me to follow it.
I definitely do not feel that I have been on a diet. I’m eating great food. It is eating the right foods at the right times that takes planning and execution. I've organized my refrigerator so that I have my own shelf. The left side is for vegetables, the middle for certain fruits and the right side is my protein. It makes it extremely seamless for me to be able to grab a Tupperware of food and have a well balanced meal. As a result, our food bills have decreased and the family's appetite for my cooking has increased. The ground rules have been laid out and my family is not only abiding by them, but has realized that my planning and dinner organization is a blessing.
Kathy provided a meal plan based on my workouts, daily activities, sleep pattern, etc. It was up to me to follow it.
I definitely do not feel that I have been on a diet. I’m eating great food. It is eating the right foods at the right times that takes planning and execution. I've organized my refrigerator so that I have my own shelf. The left side is for vegetables, the middle for certain fruits and the right side is my protein. It makes it extremely seamless for me to be able to grab a Tupperware of food and have a well balanced meal. As a result, our food bills have decreased and the family's appetite for my cooking has increased. The ground rules have been laid out and my family is not only abiding by them, but has realized that my planning and dinner organization is a blessing.
With so much that has gone right, it may seem like the first half has been a breeze, right? Think again.
I went through week five and six without any weight loss. Kathy could see the tears swell in my eyes
because she definitely empathized with my frustration. Here I have put in all this effort, changed
my lifestyle in more ways than just food and drink and nothing to show for it
for two weeks. I remember Kathy's words so
clearly-
“So what are you going to do? Go backwards? Just give up because you didn't see results this week? If you do A+B+C you WILL get D.
Everything you are doing is a step in the right direction.”
Basically, I needed to keep following my nutrition as planned, hit my strength training and cardio as mapped out and I will see results.
Well, she was right. After a 2 week plateau, I lost an additional 3 lbs in one week. This was the hardest part so far- keeping my focus when I didn't have anything to show for it!
So, here I am - putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. I choose that I’m worth it and I will not go back.
“So what are you going to do? Go backwards? Just give up because you didn't see results this week? If you do A+B+C you WILL get D.
Everything you are doing is a step in the right direction.”
Basically, I needed to keep following my nutrition as planned, hit my strength training and cardio as mapped out and I will see results.
Well, she was right. After a 2 week plateau, I lost an additional 3 lbs in one week. This was the hardest part so far- keeping my focus when I didn't have anything to show for it!
So, here I am - putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. I choose that I’m worth it and I will not go back.
Here’s to the next six weeks and the rest of my life!!
Thanks Kim! And I'm just going to throw this out there- not ONCE did she complain...yes, she felt helpless at times but she never EVER quit on her attitude.
You want results? Get the right attitude.
You are worth it and results are possible if you believe in yourself and trust the process.
Thanks for reading and cheers to your health and fitness!
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
Do you want to change or not ?
I want to thank all of you that subscribe to this blog or follow along via other social media sites. I received incredible feedback and I'm so grateful to those who reached out with questions and comments.
Last week, my blog had the most readership since I began in March. My main focus with this blog has been to keep it real - no "sugar coating" allowed. I may not have been 100 lbs overweight but I've probably gained and lost close to 300 lbs over the years. I've never had a health issue that has left me with physical limitations in the gym, but I do know what it feels like to drag my ass to the gym when it's the last thing on my mind.
Let's get started.
For those who've been following along with my local client's journey to change her health and fitness status in 12 weeks, we are halfway through the challenge.
Here's her update:
Let's get started.
For those who've been following along with my local client's journey to change her health and fitness status in 12 weeks, we are halfway through the challenge.
Here's her update:
* She has lost 6 lbs in 6 weeks! Yes, that's only a pound of week but guess what folks? This is totally normal considering she doesn't have 50+ pounds to lose - the weight will come off more quickly with an individual who has more weight to lose. Again, we are focusing on the day in/day out challenges within the 12 weeks...not how low can we go !
* Here's the most incredible measurement: A loss of 3 inches in her waist- THREE INCHES! Here's what this means: She is retaining muscle on her body yet losing unwanted body fat. This is a big deal peeps. MUSCLE WEIGHS MORE THAN FAT BUT TAKES UP LESS SPACE ON THE BODY. She's sliding into a pair of size 6 jeans that she hasn't seen for a while...now that's a great feeling!
* She's stronger than ever in the weight room. She's eating enough of the RIGHT foods to keep her energized and productive for not only her workouts, but the entire day. More strength = more lean muscle= stronger metabolism.
Change is hard and she has stayed the course - even when she felt like throwing in the towel and became ill with a virus that not only took away her appetite for clean food, but stole her energy from the gym for a week. I'm so proud of her and can't wait for the next 6 weeks!
Let's face it - Change is Uncomfortable. When we make a change, we expect to see immediate results. Well, big news flash - we're not changing lanes in traffic here peeps....we're changing behaviors...and it gets quite uncomfortable at times....so uncomfortable at times that we revert back to what we know - our old behavior patterns. We go back to our old ways that didn't necessarily serve us well but they were comfortable.
One reader reached out to me -"Kathy, I hear you loud and clear but I just don't know where to start. Is this normal? "
You bet it's normal and honestly, I cannot tell you exactly where to start because each person is an individual and has their own individual stress and time constraints. But this is what I DO know - you want to change but are you WILLING to change? Are you willing to take a good long look at your current lifestyle and poke holes at it? Are you willing to analyze your ways and make changes?
First, state your goal. Write it down and share it with one person in your life. Once we put it out there, we feel compelled to accomplish.
Second, make a plan. Make a plan to change ONE thing you do everyday to get you closer to your goals. For example, pack your lunch instead of going out to eat. Eat breakfast every day. Plan for 30 minutes of exercise each day. Skip the sugar snack at 3pm. Do SOMETHING that is different than you are currently doing to get you going in the right direction.
Third, keep a journal. Keep a daily journal tracking what you ate, your exercise and overall feelings. I know it sounds tedious but it can be a relaxation tool - the opportunity to reflect on your day and find ways you can be more productive. I do this every single day.
Last but not least, set a goal. Pick something on the calendar that will help keep you accountable. As I've preached before, taking this day by day is the key BUT you still need a date on the calendar to be accountable. Be realistic - don't pick next week...give yourself 8-12 weeks to see results.
So, if you're in the middle of a health or fitness journey, please remember that " If it was easy, everyone would do it" . Every single day is a new beginning to make a CHANGE!
As always, thanks for reading! Cheers to your health and fitness!
* She's stronger than ever in the weight room. She's eating enough of the RIGHT foods to keep her energized and productive for not only her workouts, but the entire day. More strength = more lean muscle= stronger metabolism.
Change is hard and she has stayed the course - even when she felt like throwing in the towel and became ill with a virus that not only took away her appetite for clean food, but stole her energy from the gym for a week. I'm so proud of her and can't wait for the next 6 weeks!
Let's face it - Change is Uncomfortable. When we make a change, we expect to see immediate results. Well, big news flash - we're not changing lanes in traffic here peeps....we're changing behaviors...and it gets quite uncomfortable at times....so uncomfortable at times that we revert back to what we know - our old behavior patterns. We go back to our old ways that didn't necessarily serve us well but they were comfortable.
One reader reached out to me -"Kathy, I hear you loud and clear but I just don't know where to start. Is this normal? "
You bet it's normal and honestly, I cannot tell you exactly where to start because each person is an individual and has their own individual stress and time constraints. But this is what I DO know - you want to change but are you WILLING to change? Are you willing to take a good long look at your current lifestyle and poke holes at it? Are you willing to analyze your ways and make changes?
First, state your goal. Write it down and share it with one person in your life. Once we put it out there, we feel compelled to accomplish.
Second, make a plan. Make a plan to change ONE thing you do everyday to get you closer to your goals. For example, pack your lunch instead of going out to eat. Eat breakfast every day. Plan for 30 minutes of exercise each day. Skip the sugar snack at 3pm. Do SOMETHING that is different than you are currently doing to get you going in the right direction.
Third, keep a journal. Keep a daily journal tracking what you ate, your exercise and overall feelings. I know it sounds tedious but it can be a relaxation tool - the opportunity to reflect on your day and find ways you can be more productive. I do this every single day.
Last but not least, set a goal. Pick something on the calendar that will help keep you accountable. As I've preached before, taking this day by day is the key BUT you still need a date on the calendar to be accountable. Be realistic - don't pick next week...give yourself 8-12 weeks to see results.
So, if you're in the middle of a health or fitness journey, please remember that " If it was easy, everyone would do it" . Every single day is a new beginning to make a CHANGE!
As always, thanks for reading! Cheers to your health and fitness!
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
It's not Rocket Science: 10 things I've learned from my fitness journey!
I've been fat, thin, fat, thin, chubby, pregnant twice, fat again and thin again...you get the idea.
As someone who struggled most of the early years with eating right and exercise, I have learned a thing or two about how to be successful and stay successful with my health and fitness.
I've been blessed to turn my passion into a career and help others with their fitness and nutrition goals.
Today I want to share the top 10 things I've learned through my fitness journey and hopefully inspire someone out there to keep going!!
1) It's never ever too late.
I didn't start my fitness journey until my mid-thirties and got into the best shape of my life by the age of 40 and never looked back. I am proud to say I've stepped on stage as a national figure competitor - something I never thought was possible and I did it at the ripe age of 42. Before kids, I couldn't run from here to the mailbox. A half-marathon & some 5K's later, I can now run without the feeling of throwing up all over myself.
But even more than past accomplishments, I'm happy and healthy and feel like I'm 25 - not 45!
2) You can't out train a bad diet.
This one doesn't need much of an explanation but WOW- if I had a dime for every minute I've spent doing extra cardio so I could go home and eat like a pig, I would be on a private island counting my money. It doesn't work peeps.
3) Taking time for yourself is not selfish.
Selfish is treating your body like crap so you aren't of any use to others in your life. Make yourself the priority so you can make others a priority in your life. And while you're busy making yourself the priority, make sure you have a good support system to surround yourself...going at it alone without anyone to cheer you on or help you stay focused is not a lot of fun.
4) Stop weighing yourself every day.
The scale is not your friend. The scale will lie to you. It will tell you that you're having a good day when you're really not ( i.e. I guess I can have that extra slice of pizza) or tell you that you're having a bad day when maybe it's just a little water weight...so you starve yourself. Either way it's a bad idea.
Rely on measurements and the good 'ol "zipper" test to give you an accurate "picture" of what's really going on with you.
5) Results don't come in a pill.
You WILL have to bust your ass. You will have to eat right and drink your water. You will have to plan your food and exercise sessions. There isn't a Fitness Fairy that does it for you nor does it come in a fancy pill. Complaining about your current situation does nothing to fight the fight. Make up your mind to get it done.
6) Results, GOOD and LONG LASTING results will take time.
No, you can't lose 5 lbs before the weekend (and expect to keep it off) and you won't suddenly have toned muscles after 1 week in the gym. Unrealistic expectations will create unrealistic results.
Consistency is the key to long term success. The bodies you admire in the gym or in the fitness magazines were created with patience and consistency, not gimmicks.
7) Eat to live don't live to eat.
Exercise is only part of the equation. We have all heard that diet is the key to fitness success - at least 70-80% depending on who you ask! If you want to change your physique, change the way you view food.
Don't get me wrong- I LOVE food- all kinds - I'm not even prejudice to fast food. I could throw down on some fried chicken or pizza and not blink an eye.
But, I've had to learn to view food as FUEL and treat my body to the right gas....not give it crappy food which results in bad fuel.
8) Weight training will get you further than hours on the treadmill.
Yes- I was one of those in the beginning- spent hours doing cardio and ignored the need for weight training.
The key to having a strong metabolism is to have muscle on the body. Muscle gives the body a more tight and lean appearance. Do not fall victim to " I'll start with cardio- lose some weight and begin my strength routine". Big mistake. Do your cardio AND weight training for a balanced physique.
9) Keep track of your food/workouts.
There is NO way I would be where I am today if I hadn't taken the time to keep a food journal ( and this was before the age of fitness apps!). It was the number one factor that led to my success- I'm convinced of it.
I wrote down everything I ate for years. I educated myself on calories and macro nutrients. I still keep track of my food on a weekly basis. Success rates almost triple when a journal is kept for at least 4 weeks.
10) Failure to Plan is a Plan to Fail.
I know we've all heard this one before but let's face it- it's part of the process. Schedule your workouts, plan your meals, plan for obstacles and plan for success. That's right...plan for success.
Thanks for reading! Is there a subject you would like for me to address in an future blog? Email me kathy.laucius@yahoo.com
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
We make our choices, then our choices make us.
I'm a quote nerd. I love quotes. I don't pretend to originate them but I will always try to make my point with a quote. This one in particular could not be more true for my local client who vowed to take back her fitness and put herself first so she can take care of others around her.
Four weeks ago she started a 12 week plan to get it right. But what does 'RIGHT' look like? We did not set a weight loss goal. We did not set a goal to lose a certain amount of body fat or inches. We set a goal to make changes- changes that will last a lifetime, not just for 12 weeks.
Drum Roll Please....
At the end of 4 weeks, she has lost 5.5 lbs and 2.5 inches in her waist. Her body fat has dropped by almost 3% ! Clothes that used to be snug are now fitting loose and comfortable.
As someone who has their own "before and after" story, my philosophy is simple....you put in the effort, you provide the consistency and you will see results. It's better than any gambling odds in Vegas.
Effort + Consistency = Success
This is not the 'Biggest Loser'. We are not trying to lose a ridiculous amount of weight in the least amount of time. We are setting up long term ideals for long term success. Long term success is dependent upon realistic goals. If you lose the weight too quickly, you are setting yourself up for a big gain in return. Slow and steady wins the race.
Average weight loss is .5 -2 lbs/week. If you are losing weight at a more rapid loss, make sure your meal plan/exercise plan is realistic and can be achieved on a weekly basis.
For my client, we focused on a balanced diet of 1450 calories. Her starting weight was 156 and she's down to 150.5 lbs. (See previous blog for macro nutrients and exercise plan)
CHOICES (CHANGES) TO HER DAILY LIFE:
1) PLAN AHEAD: My client realized that there was no such thing as a 'Food Prep Fairy' so she was going to have to plan ahead...she made sure she left 30 minutes every night to organize her food, supplements and get things ready for the next day. She realized that this has been the biggest reason for failure in the past- thinking there will be enough time in the morning to get organized but it just never happened for her.
I'm here to tell you- failure to plan is a plan to fail. This has to be Number One on your goal list.
2) ORGANIZE YOUR KITCHEN: Do you know where your food is? Do you have your food accessible? My client organized her kitchen to make sure she could get to her food as needed- she even organized her refrigerator to include proteins, carbs and fats as well as food for her family.
3) PACK FOOD FOR "ON THE GO" : How many times have you caught yourself at a meal time, on the go yet nothing there to eat? Again, the key to success is to plan ahead so look at your calendar and plan ahead for meals/snacks. Don't let a whole day of hard work go out the window due to lack of planning or accessible food! HINT- everywhere you go there is a grocery store close by...don't waste calories at a fast food drive-thru...use the produce and deli section to put together fresh meals on the go.
4) INCLUDE FAMILY IN MENUS: One thing she wanted to do when she started was to make sure her family was eating healthy along with her meal plan. This is smart. Instead of eating a meal plan that only worked for her, she planned out her family dinners to include healthy food for everyone as she watched her own portions to fit her calorie requirements. I've seen too many people fall off the wagon because they put themselves on ridiculous food requirements and leave the rest of the family out of the picture.
These things may sound like a pain in the rear but this is how it gets done. You cannot expect to see results without putting some mental power into the process. Some of you may have already realized the obvious- putting the mental power into your meal plan with planning, shopping and execution is much more difficult than the physical power you put into your workouts.
YOU MAKE THE CHOICE.
Thanks for reading! Next week I will share the 10 things I learned through my own fitness journey - Hint Hint....It's never ever too late!
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Starting Over Sucks...So Keep Going!
AMEN! As highlighted in my previous blog, one of my local clients decided enough was enough. She made a very simple conclusion for her fitness journey: She was tired of stopping and starting over....the process was exhausting and began to drain her of everyday life.
As she mentioned in her testimonial ,the goal was to once and for all, make this a lifestyle and not a short term project.
She made up her mind to KEEP GOING and STOP STARTING OVER. How many of us have been there? Very few of us get it right the first time. As someone who has stopped and started over more times than they have fingers and toes to count with, I get it. Once I became fit for a lifetime and became a personal trainer, I made it my mission to help others make this a LIFESTYLE.
So- now I'm going to contradict myself. Yes, it's a lifestyle but at the same time, you need to set a date with the calendar- a realistic date that will keep you accountable to your goals yet give you the "push" to not fall off the wagon.
Personally, I prefer a 12 week time frame when working with my clients. Why?
You can't give a program one week and expect results. You need to give your program 12 weeks to make changes as necessary.
My client has been on the program for 3 weeks.
Her starting weight was 157 lbs and her waist measured at 33.5 inches.
At the end of 4 weeks, she will hit the scale and have measurements taken - we will also reevaluate the meal plan and make necessary changes.
MEAL PLAN:
* Eliminated all processed food from diet as well as alcohol.
* Her meal plan has her eating 1450 calories/day based on her activity level. Her breakdown is:
- 40% of total calories is protein
- 30% of total calories is carbohydrates
- 30% of total calories is fat.
* I cannot express enough how easy it is to OVER THINK your meal plan. As long as you keep the processed foods out and use clean/fresh foods, you are doing it right. But there are a few things you can do to ensure success:
1) Listen to your body. Do you need 5-6 small meals day or are you OK with 3 large meals and some small snacks? I think this is all dependent on your activity level. At the end of the day, your calories in vs. calories out will determine success but you also need to be smart with the way you plan your food intake.
2) Eat your protein: Protein is essential for muscle building and muscle recovery. It also helps you feel full all day long- not to mention your metabolism has to work harder to digest protein vs carbs or fat. So, you get a lot of bang when it comes to speeding up your metabolism. Calculate the amount of protein you need each day ( I use 1 gram per pound of body weight and adjust as the body weight drops/gains depending on your goals). Use this number to calculate 40% of your total calorie needs- and this is all dependent on your activity level and lean muscle mass.
* Carbohydrates are not the enemy but you can be strategic with them. After calculating your carbohydrate needs ( 30% of total calories ) , put the majority of your carbohydrate intake around your pre/post workout meals and spread the rest throughout the day. If you are not working out for the day, spread your carbohydrates evenly throughout the day.
* Fats are good but they also have their purpose in your daily meals. DO NOT CONSUME FAT POST WORKOUT. Fats slow down the absorption of carbohydrates, so your PB2 or avocado may not be a good choice at this time. The goal post workout is to get those carbs into the body ASAP and rebuild glucose levels. Fats eaten with carbs are great to help keep blood sugar levels normal so spread out your fat intake evenly throughout other meals each day.
EXERCISE PLAN:
* 3 days/week in the weight room using body part splits: One day/week is legs and the other 2 are upper body-switching up the exercises/splits/reps each week.
* Cardio is 2-3 days of HIIT ( high intensityinterval training) and 2 -3 days week of moderate cardio ( 30-45 minutes). HIIT is performed on non weight training days.
When it comes to cardio, more is not always better. The very first thing your body adapts to is the cardio program. So- you have to keep doing more cardio in order to stay ahead of the game. But, if you use intervals 2-3x/ week, you will keep your body working hard and burning MORE calories during the session . Less time and more calories burned? YEP! But, you can't do it everyday- your body needs a break so I recommend maximum 3/week.
The reason for featuring a client during their program is to show the good, bad and ugly that comes up during the process. Every person is different but each one of us has something to overcome - and that is the similarity.
Thanks for reading-if you have any questions please feel free to email me kathy.laucius@yahoo.com
Have a great week!
Sunday, September 1, 2013
Failure is NOT an option.
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I love this quote. I love this quote because it is applicable to so many different things in our lives. No matter what the challenge is in front of us, we have something/someone telling us we can't do it.
And you know who's your own worst enemy? You. That's right. You control your destiny. You control your life. So, it's time to dig deep and let the soul searching begin....
I have a local client who has asked me to turn up the heat on her accountability. With her permission, I have put her on a 12 week program. It will be hard and it will have it's moments. I asked her to write, in her own words, WHY she wants to move forward. I have found that when clients write their testimonial, they are not only sharing it with others but they are digging deep to their own motivation. It also provides clarity when the "going gets tough" and you need to remember your ultimate goal.
So, in her own words, here is the testimonial from my client:
And you know who's your own worst enemy? You. That's right. You control your destiny. You control your life. So, it's time to dig deep and let the soul searching begin....
I have a local client who has asked me to turn up the heat on her accountability. With her permission, I have put her on a 12 week program. It will be hard and it will have it's moments. I asked her to write, in her own words, WHY she wants to move forward. I have found that when clients write their testimonial, they are not only sharing it with others but they are digging deep to their own motivation. It also provides clarity when the "going gets tough" and you need to remember your ultimate goal.
So, in her own words, here is the testimonial from my client:
The testimonial is designed as a tool to inspire during the
plateau periods of training. However, it
is important to understand the motivation for asking to be on this 12 week
track to fitness. I understand my
motivation. It’s to be fit, to feel good
in clothing, to wear the clothes that are hanging in the closet or slumbering
under the bed, to keep up with my daughter both physically and mentally. So that is the motivation to start? Should be enough right? Wrong.
It’s the motivation to be consistent and not repeat sabotaging behavior.
To explain; I was fit. In
2009, I worked with Kathy to change my body.
The goal was to reach a size and maintain. I was facing personal struggles and didn’t
know what life would hold for me within the year. With Kathy's guidance, I reached my goal size and was even wearing a
bikini (to the chagrin of my mother and daughter).
As a stay at home mom, I had the time for the running, workouts,
cooking and weighing every meal etc. I
then went back to work. It was difficult
to fit in a run during lunch with the showering and hair drying, etc. I was too tired to get up 4:00am and
workout. Lunch was a another story. Pizza, burgers and other quick lunches were
OK because I of course had wiggle room.
Gradually I let it all slip away.
Here I am again. I began
looking long and hard about not just my workout but other areas that I feel I
fall short. What became apparent is that
I put myself on the back burner when it comes to improving the way I look. It is rare that I shop for clothing, and when
I do it’s a tragic experience. My
husband is a jeweler, yet I seldom wear anything other than a ring and
watch. It then became clear that I have
followed in my mother’s footsteps, putting others first and rarely doing anything for herself.
How do I make myself a priority when I tell myself that others
are more important? My motivation is to
show my daughter that you can be a woman, a mother, a wife and selfless all
while taking care of yourself. We laugh
at the term “Happy Wife; Happy Life”, but it is true. If I cannot take care of myself and be
healthy and fit for a lifetime, how can I be a strong woman, mother and
wife? I also am motivated in this age of
body issues among girls to show my daughter that she is in control of her
fitness and how to control it in a healthy manner.
So, once and for all, I am determined to make ME the priority so I can be healthy and happy for my family.
Here we go!!
Does this story sound familiar? Of course it does. It's the story for many of us trying to find "balance" in our life.
The next 12 weeks will be about Balance. The only way this fitness stuff works is to make it work with YOUR life, not another's expectations or time factors.
I hope you will follow along with this journey. This week I will post a before pic along with weight and measurements.
Thanks for reading and Cheers to Health and Happiness!!
Sunday, July 21, 2013
There's still time to change the road you're on
Was this your motto at the beginning of 2013?? Halfway through the year- where are you with your goals?
Well, you may be like most people - you have already forgotten that special "feeling" you had when you set your goal/resolution. Holding on to that special feeling is important- it stays with us to remind us WHY we do what we do...but for some that is easier than others.
If you haven't already written down your goal, do it now. Research shows that the success rate is higher for those that write down their goals and keep it visible as opposed to keeping in inside their head.
Looking back on the beginning of the year, did you set REASONABLE goals? Did you vow to wake up at 3 am just to get to the gym when you know it's not possible? Did you vow to eat clean every single day, even on the weekends, when you know special occasions will occur??
Remember that this is a lifestyle commitment - so it won't happen overnight.
Here are some simple thoughts to help keep it all in perspective:
1) Don't get frustrated if you're not there yet -attitude means everything.
2) Slip ups are normal. The key is to not let one bad day turn into a bad month and on & on...
3) Reevaluate and choose baby steps - make a plan to do ONE thing each week to get you closer to your goal.
4) Understand that change is part of the process. Don't run from it - embrace it. If it was easy, everyone would do it.
5) Commit to your decisions. You must decide what you are willing to do and not do. Again, don't set yourself up for failure committing to a crazy workout time or vowing that you will never have another piece of cake the rest of your life. Set realistic goals and commit to them.
6) Stop waiting for the perfect day or time to get started. It will never be perfect.
7) Plan, plan, plan - plan your meals, plan your workouts, plan your relaxation time. As much as possible, don't leave things up to chance.
8) Leave the insecurities behind. I know it's hard- trying to make changes yet wondering if they will ever come to fruition? You must believe in yourself to see results.
9) Enlist a support system. Find someone to keep yourself accountable to: family member, trainer, co-worker, etc. Better yet- enlist another person to take the journey with you.
10) Focus on the feeling of accomplishment. Remember the time you worked out when you didn't feel like it or you made the right choices with your food? Remind yourself that you DO have it in you.
Remember- if you start today, just think where you will be by the end of 2013.
Stop talking - start DOING!
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